I met this guy that goes to grad school with me. He's sweet, funny, and really just gorgeous. We've slept together a few times. I really like him as more than friends with benefits or a hookup. In fact, he's the first male I've been remotely interested in in two years. He told me that if I get lonely to call and he'd be here. I never call though because I don't want to seem needy or just looking for a hookup. I don't know how he feels about me. I wish I knew. I wish he felt the same way about me.